akiradesign said: many of u r right, in my case it happend cuase amissunderstud 5 years ago but somehow we start going out a few weeks ago, never talk about gettin back but i think she thinks it too, about gloria i hope u can get over this and find a good solution, if we all can help just contact us. and graveyardawaken, she left me so im the one here in the middle of a moral question
thanks man. yeah. just goes to show that one should never go into a relationship without a plan B. well i royally fucked myself there for not thinking to have a plan b. so word be to all HAVE A PLAN B. See for the guy he will be alright because he is running into a nest egg. all my assetts have been put into this house so i basically can't pull out the chess board untill the house sells. chess in the way as geographic strategy goes that is. chess for being a bitch if need be thanh i will ask for help. hahaha.
as for misunderstandings. the way i see it compromise is okay. when you say moral issue if it involves sacrafice than be wary, a relationship should only involve compromise. not sacrifice. unless you mean a material object like selling the boat so you can make a house payment. but if it borders on disowning your mom or aborting your kid don't bother. say did she leave you thinking she would find something better? than found ther was not such a person? than she should be very grateful to have you back then. i should think. sorry for the length. it's my drink.