Posted By: Deathbat_Soldier
SAT OCTOBER 17 @ 09:17 PM
Total Posts: 191
Honestly, I dont want any shit....I just would some answers.
Why is it so hard for someone to like a bigger person? Whoever said that thin is the best way to be? Why do people think you are disgusting if you are big? They're many other questions I have but I will leave it at this for now.
Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! <---- Slightly off topic, sorry.
Its like everyone from individuals to entire companies are against us.
As a bigger girl, thats my thought.
Posted By: ministrymember99
SUN OCTOBER 18 @ 06:23 PM
Total Posts: 3188
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! <---- Slightly off topic, sorry.
Its like everyone from individuals to entire companies are against us.
As a bigger girl, thats my thought.
dear god
words almost right on out of my mouth
except for a few things here and there
im big myself
but its all in everyones personal opinions and the society they were raised in and around.
im nearly 25 pounds overwieght but im attracted to thinner more lean people
a dear friend of mine is constantly struggling to not fall underweight and he prefers a chunkier type
its just persnal preference I suppose
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ministrymember99 said: [QUOTE]
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! t seem to mind. Most guy are not attracted to this.
Whoa, I don't know what happened there. My post went totally whacko, sorry about that.
Basically what I said was: I should weigh 145 for my height, and I weigh 165. I have huge boobs and a fat stomach, and small hips and [suprisingly nice] legs. I practically have no ass. Also a long torso, so girl's shirts are a no-no. I have to wear guys tshirts, they are the only tops long enough.
As for your buddy, he'd make me feel worse about myself. Haha, thin guys do that to me. =/ I've always been attracted to teddy-bear guys.
I realize its all personal preference. :] But in my daily life, I seem to find nothing but guys attracted to the 'model' type. I honestly get looked over when I am out with my thinner, or more proportionate friends. I've never been hit on in public. Thats what I get for being awkward.
Also, I'm not lazy. lol! No matter how many meals I skip, or how much exercise I do, my body will not let go of the damn fat. Its like it loves it or something.
Heres two full body shots, actually taken today. Just so you know what I'm talking about. I didn't realize I would have my picture taken today, so excuse the retarded clothes and lack of make-up. [And if this post doesn't work, AGAIN, I give up and will just put these pictures on my profile.]
Posted By: ministrymember99
MON OCTOBER 19 @ 12:58 PM
Total Posts: 3188
i compleley understand about the whole in public with friends thing....depresss me sometimes
but then i think
WOW
im the single greatest bass player of ALL TIME
so it makes it all better
Posted By: ☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠
MON OCTOBER 19 @ 06:39 PM
Total Posts: 3933
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Heres two full body shots, actually taken today. Just so you know what I'm talking about. I didn't realize I would have my picture taken today, so excuse the retarded clothes and lack of make-up. [And if this post doesn't work, AGAIN, I give up and will just put these pictures on my profile.]
You are cute, very pretty, and you don't have a bad body at all.
Posted By: ☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠
MON OCTOBER 19 @ 06:57 PM
Total Posts: 3933
I am a large man(getting smaller since I quit Football), I was at one point, 5'10", 250 pounds, with 18 Inch Arms and 30 Inch Legs, and women were intimidated by me, but I was a nice guy, I had girls that liked me, but they were all taken, or inbred(not a joke), but it was all good, I got respect from everyone, I had people who could have kicked my ass backing down from me, but oh well, I am not as big now, so I am growing a beard so I can be intimidating again.
☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠ said: I am a large man(getting smaller since I quit Football), I was at one point, 5'10", 250 pounds, with 18 Inch Arms and 30 Inch Legs, and women were intimidated by me, but I was a nice guy, I had girls that liked me, but they were all taken, or inbred(not a joke), but it was all good, I got respect from everyone, I had people who could have kicked my ass backing down from me, but oh well, I am not as big now, so I am growing a beard so I can be intimidating again.
Ha, I would have never been intimidated by you. [Not saying you weren't intimidating. :D ] Buy like that don't sacre me. I grew up with men of that stature, so it doesn;t bother me. They're my favorite type. lol
And thanks for the compliments.. I just have a hard time accepting them. haha..
Posted By: Gnomez
MON OCTOBER 19 @ 09:26 PM
Total Posts: 1226
Im intimidated by the fact that you have your photo taken in a graveyard???????
Posted By: Graveyardawaken
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 12:13 PM
Total Posts: 2715
Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
Posted By: ministrymember99
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 01:04 PM
Total Posts: 3188
did you just find that viking helmet out there or did ya bring it from home?
Posted By: ☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 02:16 PM
Total Posts: 3933
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
This is funny, you come back and noone is like OMG YOU R TEH HAWTZORZ, I think you are, but everyone does that everytime you come on.
Posted By: Gnomez
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 03:42 PM
Total Posts: 1226
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
I have no standards, requirements or definition for you Fee
I'm shallow
Your hot
I am a 3ft tall balding fat old poor guy with no personality and a 1" penis
Let's get it on!!!!!
Posted By: Gnomez
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 03:45 PM
Total Posts: 1226
Okay I lied
It's actually 1.3"
I have a boner
Posted By: ☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 06:03 PM
Total Posts: 3933
Gnomes said: Okay I lied
It's actually 1.3"
I have a boner
You my friend are definantly, from New Zealand.
Posted By: Gnomez
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 07:34 PM
Total Posts: 1226
Shaddup and go water and fertilise your beard or somethink.....I'm talking durrrty to Fee
Posted By: WTFwereUthinkinMan
TUE OCTOBER 20 @ 07:40 PM
Total Posts: 219
fuck'em if they dont like it someone else will right
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
Anyone that I have ever heard use that line, has no problems in the beauty department. They are all thin and attractive. Its the nice way an attractive person tells the less fortunate, "You're totally hideous on the outside, but something is beautiful on the inside. I think." :D
ministrymember99 said: did you just find that viking helmet out there or did ya bring it from home?
I brought it with me. lol! Its part of my Halloween costume.
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Honestly, I dont want any shit....I just would some answers.
Why is it so hard for someone to like a bigger person? Whoever said that thin is the best way to be? Why do people think you are disgusting if you are big? They're many other questions I have but I will leave it at this for now.
Total Posts: 389
Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! <---- Slightly off topic, sorry.
Its like everyone from individuals to entire companies are against us.
As a bigger girl, thats my thought.
Total Posts: 3188
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! <---- Slightly off topic, sorry.
Its like everyone from individuals to entire companies are against us.
As a bigger girl, thats my thought.
dear god
words almost right on out of my mouth
except for a few things here and there
im big myself
but its all in everyones personal opinions and the society they were raised in and around.
im nearly 25 pounds overwieght but im attracted to thinner more lean people
a dear friend of mine is constantly struggling to not fall underweight and he prefers a chunkier type
its just persnal preference I suppose
but nicely put black wizard
www.myspace.com/localmetalband
Total Posts: 389
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ministrymember99 said: [QUOTE]
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Because society nowadays thinks that the more 'compact' something is, the better. Look at electronics for instance. Like cellphones, back in the day. They were huge! Now, you can get a phone that can sit in the palm of your hand, thats less thats half an inch thick.
Along with the fact that almost every guy out there wants some tiny chick whose body looks like a 12 year olds with cantalopes attatched to the chest. [Which is why the rest of us had to develop this thing called a 'personality' to get a guy's attention. *grumble*]
Quite honestly, I wish it were still socially acceptable to be bigger. When it meant you were royalty. I think that people show still try to eat healthy, but just let thier body go to it's natural size. Know what I mean?
Now people just laugh at us because we don't fit into tiny, cookie-cutter clothes.
I especially hate trying to find cute bras in a 36 DDD. Its like companies think that if you have a bustline bigger than a C cup, you want a nude, over-lacy [ugly] bra, or to minimize them. HELL NO! I wanna show 'em off! t seem to mind. Most guy are not attracted to this.
Total Posts: 389
Whoa, I don't know what happened there. My post went totally whacko, sorry about that.
Basically what I said was: I should weigh 145 for my height, and I weigh 165. I have huge boobs and a fat stomach, and small hips and [suprisingly nice] legs. I practically have no ass. Also a long torso, so girl's shirts are a no-no. I have to wear guys tshirts, they are the only tops long enough.
As for your buddy, he'd make me feel worse about myself. Haha, thin guys do that to me. =/ I've always been attracted to teddy-bear guys.
I realize its all personal preference. :] But in my daily life, I seem to find nothing but guys attracted to the 'model' type. I honestly get looked over when I am out with my thinner, or more proportionate friends. I've never been hit on in public. Thats what I get for being awkward.
Also, I'm not lazy. lol! No matter how many meals I skip, or how much exercise I do, my body will not let go of the damn fat. Its like it loves it or something.
Total Posts: 389
Heres two full body shots, actually taken today. Just so you know what I'm talking about. I didn't realize I would have my picture taken today, so excuse the retarded clothes and lack of make-up. [And if this post doesn't work, AGAIN, I give up and will just put these pictures on my profile.]
Total Posts: 3188
i compleley understand about the whole in public with friends thing....depresss me sometimes
but then i think
WOW
im the single greatest bass player of ALL TIME
so it makes it all better
www.myspace.com/localmetalband
Total Posts: 3933
I_am_the_black_wizard said: Heres two full body shots, actually taken today. Just so you know what I'm talking about. I didn't realize I would have my picture taken today, so excuse the retarded clothes and lack of make-up. [And if this post doesn't work, AGAIN, I give up and will just put these pictures on my profile.]
Total Posts: 3933
I am a large man(getting smaller since I quit Football), I was at one point, 5'10", 250 pounds, with 18 Inch Arms and 30 Inch Legs, and women were intimidated by me, but I was a nice guy, I had girls that liked me, but they were all taken, or inbred(not a joke), but it was all good, I got respect from everyone, I had people who could have kicked my ass backing down from me, but oh well, I am not as big now, so I am growing a beard so I can be intimidating again.
Total Posts: 389
☠Deputy☠Potatoes☠ said: I am a large man(getting smaller since I quit Football), I was at one point, 5'10", 250 pounds, with 18 Inch Arms and 30 Inch Legs, and women were intimidated by me, but I was a nice guy, I had girls that liked me, but they were all taken, or inbred(not a joke), but it was all good, I got respect from everyone, I had people who could have kicked my ass backing down from me, but oh well, I am not as big now, so I am growing a beard so I can be intimidating again.
Ha, I would have never been intimidated by you. [Not saying you weren't intimidating. :D ] Buy like that don't sacre me. I grew up with men of that stature, so it doesn;t bother me. They're my favorite type. lol
And thanks for the compliments.. I just have a hard time accepting them. haha..
Total Posts: 1226
Im intimidated by the fact that you have your photo taken in a graveyard???????
Total Posts: 2715
Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
Total Posts: 3188
did you just find that viking helmet out there or did ya bring it from home?
www.myspace.com/localmetalband
Total Posts: 3933
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
Total Posts: 1226
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
I have no standards, requirements or definition for you Fee
I'm shallow
Your hot
I am a 3ft tall balding fat old poor guy with no personality and a 1" penis
Let's get it on!!!!!
Total Posts: 1226
Okay I lied
It's actually 1.3"
I have a boner
Total Posts: 3933
Gnomes said: Okay I lied
It's actually 1.3"
I have a boner
Total Posts: 1226
Shaddup and go water and fertilise your beard or somethink.....I'm talking durrrty to Fee
Total Posts: 219
fuck'em if they dont like it someone else will right
Total Posts: 389
Graveyardawaken said: Beauty is and should be in the eye of the beholder. beauty should have no requirements, standard, or definition. It's defined differently by each person.
Anyone that I have ever heard use that line, has no problems in the beauty department. They are all thin and attractive. Its the nice way an attractive person tells the less fortunate, "You're totally hideous on the outside, but something is beautiful on the inside. I think." :D
ministrymember99 said: did you just find that viking helmet out there or did ya bring it from home?
I brought it with me. lol! Its part of my Halloween costume.
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